League Update – Behaviour and Standards

A Message of Concern

Since the start of the 2025/26 season, poor discipline and behaviour has been on the rise across several age groups. Sadly, this is creating a toxic environment that affects everyone involved in the game.

It’s important to say — the issue is not with the children, but with adults who should be setting the right example.

Our U7 and U8 sections have seen a noticeable increase in poor conduct from adults — coaches and parents arguing, shouting, and, in some cases, using inappropriate language. Children’s football should be a place of enjoyment, not a platform for frustration.

Please don’t be that one person whose behaviour could result in a team being stopped from playing. If you can’t control your conduct, stay away from games. Everyone has a duty to protect the spirit of youth football.

Team Placements and Player Eligibility

Recent reviews of the U7 and U8 divisions have highlighted players turning out for more than one team within the same club — which is not permitted. This affects fairness and division placements.

Transparency is essential. If you’re short of a player, speak with your opposition coach — don’t just play someone ineligible. Going forward, the League will be carrying out random squad sheet checks to ensure compliance and identify unregistered coaches.

Please contact your Club Secretary if you don’t already have a current squad sheet.

We’ve also received multiple notifications from Manchester FA about teams suspended due to coaches’ safeguarding non-compliance — a clear reminder of how serious this issue has become.

Respect for Coordinators and Officials

Our onsite coordinators are there to carry out important League duties, not to face abuse. Any adult — coach, parent, or spectator — behaving inappropriately towards them will not be tolerated.

Everyone deserves respect. If this message applies to you, it’s simple: stay away from our venues.

11-a-Side and Wider Conduct

At 11-a-side level, reports of poor behaviour continue, often with conflicting accounts. All clubs are responsible for the conduct of their players, coaches, and supporters.

Our disciplinary “traffic light” system will be reviewed, as the threshold for moving from Green to Amber may need tightening to address the growing negativity around the game.

Safeguarding and Poor Practice

Safeguarding should never be misused or exaggerated. It applies when a child is genuinely at risk or in danger — not simply when a team loses a match.

Most concerns raised fall under poor practice, such as shouting or overzealous coaching. We must all understand the difference and act appropriately.

Moving Forward Together

The League cannot fix this alone. We need the cooperation of all clubs, coaches, and parents to ensure children can continue playing in a safe, positive environment.

Let’s work together to protect grassroots football — not destroy it.

Yours in Sport.

Brian Kennerley

League Secretary

East Manchester Junior Football League (EMJFL)